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Deliver Us from Meltdowns Janel Breitenstein

Emotional Strong(ish) Parenting

7 Shifts for a Resilient and Jesus-Centered Home

Parenting can feel like survival—permission slips, driving permits, lost cleats, and meltdowns in aisle seven. But what if the chaos is where God’s forming something deeper in you: emotional wholeness that could transform your family for generations?

In Emotionally Strong(ish) Parenting: 7 Shifts for a Resilient and Jesus-Centered Home, author and speaker Janel Breitenstein helps parents trade reactivity and shame for emotional resilience rooted in the gospel. Blending humor, neuroscience, and biblical wisdom, she reveals how God’s emotionally healthy love can transform everyday Christian parenting moments—from conflict to connection, from anger to peace, from fear to trust.

Through seven practical mindset shifts, Janel equips parents to grow in emotional intelligence, mental health, and spiritual maturity so they can bring that wholeness into their homes. As parents change from the inside out, kids begin to experience the powerful results of that transformation: deeper security, empathy, and faith that lasts.

How to Stop Yelling Up the Stairs

Keep Your Cool While Raising Your Kids

Lead with love when your last nerve is shot.

You want: a peaceful home where you model self-control.

You have: regrettable reactions when the kids baptize the cat.

Your children, whom you dearly love and usually like, are bickering upstairs, baiting each other across the invisible line on the back seat, or causing the laptop to bellyflop on the linoleum. The end of your rope vanished along with the chance to enjoy a hot cup of coffee.

How can you handle your real-life kids and real-life stress without flipping your lid or locking yourself in the bathroom?

With been-there humor, Janel Breitenstein offers wisdom and practical strategies pulled from God’s approach to conflict. In this boots-on-the-ground field guide, you’ll find empowering tips to parent smarter, not harder—with greater emotional intelligence and intentional discipleship; thoughtful questions to help you dive into the “whys” beneath your anger; group discussion prompts; and “cooling” prayers.

It’s time for an inner exploration that will clear your path and your mind. You can calmly and confidently raise your kids, lower your voice, and shape a home of peace.

Permanent Markers

Spiritual Life Skills to Write on Your Kids’ Hearts

A You-Can-Totally-Do-This Guide to Teaching Spiritual Life Skills That Last

As mom to a work-in-progress family of six, author Janel Breitenstein knows too well the chaos of life with the lid off. She understands how skeptical you are of shoehorning more into carpool-packed days and just trying to get kids to put socks in the hamper. But as a missionary, she also understands the urgent need to cultivate unerasable habits that prepare kids for a bold relationship with Jesus.

If you’re a parent looking for doable, out-of-the-box ways to disciple your children, Permanent Markers is a resource you’ll seek again and again. Find…

  • age-appropriate, uber-easy ideas and activities that will draw kids toward God
  • questions to kickstart meaningful conversations, along with journaling prompts for both you and your kids
  • hands-on life skills for teaching kids what the world often rejects—like community, self-control, humility, and Christ-anchored identity
  • small-group discussion questions and lists of additional resources

Permanent Markers empowers you to engage kids in vibrant spirituality, leaving this work of art up to God. You’ll find a practical, fun handbook for the most vital, eternal part of parenting.

Deliver Us from Meltdowns

And Other Real-World Prayers for Parents

Funny, heartfelt, and encouraging prayers for every Christian parent dealing with the chaos of family life.

Set aside perfection and learn to live with grace, forgiveness, and imperfection on your parenting journey. This humorous and heartfelt book of honest parental prayers is a comforting reminder that you are not alone. Parents everywhere are striving to do their best. They call out with the same pleas: for their kids to eat something other than chicken nuggets, to put down the phone for just a minute, and to come home safely. And rest assured, God hears us.

In the whirlwind of family life, Deliver Us from Meltdowns offers a sanctuary of laughter and encouragement. When you’re feeling overwhelmed, the power of prayer and a touch of humor can lift your spirits and help you regain perspective. Inside, you’ll find prayers that speak to the experiences of every parent, including:

  • Lead Us Not into Temper Tantrums
  • Get Behind Me, Helicopter Parent
  • Grant Me Infinite Patience for Endless Whys
  • Help Us Like Each Other Before We Get to Church.

Grow into the perfectly imperfect parent that God expects you to be. This thoughtful and candid book of prayers meets parents where they are and gives them better places to go—back to God’s promises and into a supportive community of parents.

Deliver Us from Meltdowns Janel Breitenstein
Meet the Author

Janel Breitenstein

Janel is a mom, missionary, international speaker, and contributor to or author of over 16 published works. Her Scripture-focused work blended with emotionally healthy relationships creates and aunthentic, intimiate connection with her readers. She is a wife and the mom of four kids and lives in Colorado. You can find her having uncomfortable, important conversations.

Janel's latest book packs a punch, for it deals with the difficult moments when our emotions collide with our children's. For such a topic, shallow, sappy, sweet ideas won't help. Janel gets that, and she's wisely crafted seven mind shifts for moms and dads, knowing change must begin with the parents. God made every family for discipleship, both for parents to teach and coach children and for parents to finish the process of growing up themselves. Getting to know him is the hidden work he desires in every home every single day. Practical, creative ideas come naturally to Janel, and in this book she shares tested practices to help you guide your child to God in the everyday craziness of your family.

Barbara Rainey, author of Letters to My Daughters: The Art of Being a Wife and cofounder of FamilyLife | Emotionally Strongish Parenting

Being a mom to three young children is beautiful, but it can be exhausting. This book was an absolute breath of fresh air. Janel provides down-to-earth, highly practical advice that doesn't feel overwhelming to implement. Best of all, it is rooted in gospel truth, offering grace for the mom while giving actionable steps to keep your cool. Highly recommend for any parent in the thick of parenting!

Erika L. | How to Stop Yelling To the Stairs

Your first job as a parent or child caregiver is to manage yourself. Not your child. Yourself. In Emotionally Strong(ish) Parenting Janel Breitenstein will move you forward by leaps and bounds toward that goal. Engaging, practical, and filled with hope, this book will help you love and care for your children well in ways that matter most.

Ron Deal, senior director at FamilyLife | Emotionally Strongish Parenting

Emotionally Strong(ish) Parenting is the best kind of parenting book. Janel's insights challenge me to recognize where I'm not leading my kids well, but she does it with a big dose of vulnerability and humor so I can't help but nod along. Janel takes my hand and says, "I get it. We've all been there," but she won't let me stay there; she points me into deeper relationship with God and my family with her practical encouragement.

Christie Thomas, author of Little Habits, Big Faith | Emotionally Strongish Parenting