Man, it was a tweeny sort of day. And I remembered: This isn’t just about control. It’s about relationship.
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Enjoy this free printable with 32 different ideas to make the most of reading with children.
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Sometimes there’s just too much real life not to share.
Now you’re speaking my [love] language: 20 ways to express affection through quality time
5.Head to an event together–a ball game, a concert, a play, a lecture, a comedian–and grab a bite to eat before or after.
6.Go for a walk or hike together.
7.Exercise together. You might even set a goal (“let’s do P90-X!” “let’s run a 5K!” “Let’s see if we can bench that much by the end of the month!).
What did you expect?
Too often, my expectations steal my joy. And my gratitude, my sense of worship, for what is.
Now you’re speaking my love language: 20 ways to display affection through acts of service
1.Knock out that item on her to-do list she just hasn’t gotten to.
2.What little touches could better make your home a “prepared place”–like God creates for us–that’s comforting, encouraging, and uplifting, so family and guests feel embraced? For guests, it may be the basket of extra toiletries next to the cozy towel in the bathroom; for kids, you could have a favorite snack ready when he arrives home; help him remove his backpack.
Now you’re speaking my [love] language: Showing affection through gifts
1.The key with communicating in this love language (so I’m told) is to study the recipient well, and communicate your understanding of him or her through the gift. It’s not about the size, but the intentional, knowing thoughtfulness, a demonstration of I get you. I see you.
2.Purchase tickets for the event you know he or she would love.
3.Have a cup of coffee (or a favorite morning beverage) ready when he or she comes out in the morning–just the way they like it–or a snack when they arrive home.



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